If you are planning to retire and considering relocating there is always the concern about establishing new friendships. Having and forming new relationships is an important part of enjoying being retired, and the Villages FL is a great place to easily cultivate new relationships with new friends. Friendships are an important part of every part of life and we need them, but forming new friendships doesn’t come easy for everyone. These are some tips and thoughts on making new friends a bit easier:
Mutual Interests
Most friendships are formed around a common interest or common heritage. Certain locations prove to be excellent places to form friendships, some of these places are clubs (political, book, cards, etc.), churches, classes (dancing, art, etc.), fitness centers, sport related activities such as tennis or golf and common places where people gather socially.
Smaller to Moderate Sized Groups
Groups of 10-30 people are ideal for creating an environment that makes it easier to form friendships. Focus on having a smaller circle of friends as it will be more easily manageable and will establish a network of options for day to day activities. Smaller groups have close knit established relationships as well, so be persistent and patient in the process of becoming a part of the group. Making yourself friendly will go a long way toward having an established group open up and welcome you in. But, most importantly, be patient, helpful, and supportive and you’ll see your friendships grow quickly.
Stepping Out
Friendship building in any phase of life, not just retirement, requires some initial work and effort. Getting to know someone means showing genuine interest in their life. Questions are the most powerful way to initiate conversation. Stay away from yes and no questions and move towards questions that require people to talk about their experiences. This opens up doors to expanded conversation and at some point will allow you to connect your experiences with theirs. Use the very basic common ground of being retired as a way to connect; that fact alone makes for easy conversation about common interests.
Use Technology
Cell phones, email, and the internet have made staying in touch with friends extremely easy. Relocating can be a difficult venture, but staying in touch with old friends will help make the transition easier. Don’t forget those friendships you have established over the years.
